Friday, February 22, 2013

Bullying in the healthcare workplace


Bullying in the work place can be a very stressful situation. Bully is not acceptable at any age; it does not make it less serious issue if the person getting bully is an older person. Bully can be both psychological and physical abuse. In some circumstance bully can escalate to physical abuse. Emotional and physical scares can cause serious problems in the future if unresolved. I have not experience bully in the work place or in clinical setting, but I have heard of stories of bullying from nurses. I hope to handle bullying the right way, I will use the chain of commanded in order to handle this serious problem.

If I am being bullied I will keep calm and control the aggressor by saying stop or stop bullying me. Bullying is very unhealthy it affects a person’s self-esteem, poor work outcome, stress and physical ailments such as stomach aches. I think that bullying is happening because other individuals who witness the bullying do not stand up for what is right. Individuals who are witnessing bullying are afraid of the aggressor redirecting their anger towards them. The next generation of healthcare providers should be able to stop horizontal violence by implementing a foundation of respect and love for each other. Basically teach and live how Jesus lived and taught to his disciples. Treat others the way you want to be treated is the foundation of Jesus teaching. It is better said than done unfortunately, however this should not discourage nurses that want to eliminate bully. By living a good Christian life and setting the example you’re self gives a much stronger message then words. 



Friday, February 1, 2013

Nursing is my purpose

What is my purpose in life? I would often wonder where God would lead me. There were many choices I could have chosen but why nursing. I also knew I wanted to help other people growing up. I think that my up bring had a lot to do with my decision. I was brought up in a loving home with two wonderful parents that always put everybody else needs before theirs. I guess it was hard for them to be selfish bring up eleven children I would love taking care of my younger sister and brother I felt like a mom and that brought me great joy. I particularly had a special bound with my sister Amparo. She was a loving guidance that always knew what to say to me to cheer me up. Amparo was not any normal sister she was special and different I realized growing up. I think that with my parents and sibling guidance it help me be a compassionate person. I still don’t understand how God has chosen someone like me an undeserving person to be a nurse. It takes a special heart to be a nurse and that has to come from God. Will I guess I have answered my own question what is my purpose, my purpose in life is to be a nurse. God had blessed me with many things but the greatest gift of all has been a heart to be a nurse and a mom. After all isn't every mom a nurse any ways.